"they left us something more precious than silver and gold..."

Thursday, July 8, 2010

fifa! fifa! fifa! SOUTH AFRICA

we went to south africa at the beginning of june...it was an amazing experience and i could post a million pics (well at least 1000, that's how many we took!) but i tried to pic my top ten favorites of the trip! we got the invite to go with my sister emily and her husband matt...they had bought tickets for the world cup, england vs. usa game, and gave us two tickets! they say a picture is worth a thousand words, but i say these pictures can't even begin to explain the impact this trip had on us.
#1 the fifa world cup! wow it was so amazing to be apart of a world phenomenon! futbol/soccer is on a different level overseas...its a culture, its a way of life...to some it is life. as intense as it looks on tv, multiple by a thousand and yes those vuvuzela horns are LOUD! it was so interesting to drive through towns and see all the little kids in bare feet kicking their soccer balls around...almost like from a movie or a documentary you might have seen. the usa vs. england game was crazy cool...i luved the singing of the national anthem, watching the little kids walking in with the players (their dream come true i'm sure!), the cheering, the celebrating...a sporting event i will never forget...it rocked my world and i luved every minute of it (even walking with emily after the game and meeting some new friends from england..."yes we knew you were americans straight away" :)!
#2 okay so i know this picture isnt amazing scenery or some cool wild animals but it has a point. this was my first time oversees and cam, em, & matt kept making fun of how "american" i am...begging for ice at every dining place we went to ("just fill the whole thing up with ice, okay...do you get it? the whole cup, fill it up!), ketchup - do you have it? i need it!, mustard for my soft yummy german pretzels...yeah, what can i say...im proud to be an AMERICAN and i also really luv ice.
#3 we were able to go to church one sunday in a small branch in rustenberg. we also drove up to the johannesburg temple one morning...would have luved to go inside but it was monday, and it was closed. its such an amazing feeling knowing that i can travel anywhere in the world and find the church of jesus christ and walk in and feel instantly at home, instantly safe, and instantly close to god. sacrament is always a time to reflect and as i sat there that sunday morning, i observed no cheerios flying during sacrament, no fighting over toys, people falling asleep, or kiddos begging for bathroom breaks. the members were intently listening, learning, and sharing their testimony's. they were sweet and welcoming. examples. humble and close knit.
#4 the food...um awesome! one of my favorite dining experiences was the african cafe where we had true africa cuisine. the dinner started with the host washing our hands, and then we ate the meal with out hands. another favorite was the codfather...where we walked up to the counter, picked out fish & they cooked it right there. we also had fresh fish-n-chips, german weinerschnitzel & pretzels, steers hambugers & carmel dipped cones!
#5 holding a baby cub, 2 months old, was a pretty surreal moment...they were so cute & "so little" but you could already tell how strong they were. our safari at the lion park was awesome...a group cancelled so it was just us 4 with our tour guide, helga. one of the highlights, at least for her, was seeing hyena's mating (i didnt post pics because i didnt want to scare anyone or cause nightmares like i had for weeks) she kept saying "if you only knew HOW RARE this occasion is, you wouldnt believe how lucky you are...please take pictures so i can show the workers back at basecamp...sooooo lucky, you just dont know!" watching the lions stroll and then run along our vehicle was pretty amazing...we saw alot of other animals...ostrich, giraffe, wild dog, wildebeest, and on and on.
#6 watching the boys jump into the atlantic ocean...they were bound and determined to check this off their list...dont even get me started on matt's obsession with swimming in the persian gulf! they were red when they came out! the beaches were beautiful, would luv to visit SA in the summertime!
#7 it was like being in first grade, going on a field trip to the zoo but actually being able to do the things you wanted to do! riding & feeding these elephants...was so fun! cam was in luv with our elephant, sharu. it was interesting getting to talk with our guide as we rode..."you know it's true what they say, it's everyone's dream to come to america...i sure would luv to see those waves in los angeles."
#8 touring...robben island (where nelson mendela was incarcerated...the boat ride out was an adventure in itself - scary!), the cape of good hope, penguin nesting beach, table mountain...each place touched me in different ways. south africa is so beautiful and has so much history. you can see it in their smiles. yet they have and continue to struggle so severely, it seems almost unbearable to me. we continually saw large groups of men, standing on corners...the employment rate is 45%. beautiful women walking along the streets carrying their babies with bath towels wrapped around them and usually 4 or more children following behind.
#9 yes if you look closely, that is a baboon breaking into that car. we were driving along the coast and kept seeing these signs that said "watch out for baboons". we were kinda laughing about it but then we turned a corner and saw a group of 20! matty & i braved it and got out and took pics, but these guys were the real deal and it was a little scary...i dont know what those other people were thinking...it was almost like a set-up by these little baboon family...the group was taking pictures of the mom & baby when out of no where this huge fellow came, jumped on the car, opened the door, and bolted out the other side and down the raven. people went nuts and the other baboons ran down the raven after their hero...we drove up and said, what did he take and the guy responded "he stole me biscuits!"
#9.5 this really doesnt count as a whole because it wasn't south africa and we were there for less than 24 hours...we flew through dubai and stayed there overnight. i know dubai has been getting alot of hype in the tourism industry but being there made me feel farthest from home, than i have ever felt in my life. we went up to the tallest building in the world, the burj khalifa & the biggest mall in the world, both were very impressive! our flight home from dubai was truly the worst expereience in my life but i dont have the time or energy to write about it...
#9.75 okay now im just being ridiculous but being with cam for 10 days was so fun! my sweet cousin kristine flew in to watch the girls for us...couldn't have done it without her! luv you kris!
#9.9 really...im almost done but i had to show a pic of the binder...when ever we travel we always put together a binder that includes all our itinerary, history on the places we are going, etc. emily was an amazing travel agent and everything went off without a hitch (except maybe that stick shift car, right em!).
#10 here's to you south africa..."a promise is a promise", beautiful blue skies, "robots" - aka stoplights, stacked dozen of eggs - not refrigerated - in all the petrol (convenient) stores, lots & lots of smoking!, horrible traffic & construction, friendly people, cool music...we luved it, still water, soccer insanity, really nice malls - which we thought was odd, small cars & lots of speeding & no cops in sight...ever, the franka bed and breakfast, counting your blessings & really realizing what freedom means, driving through beautiful beach bays with million dollar mansions and then turning the corner and being in the dirtiest-poorest living conditions imaginable...there really was no middle class, to the fools going down that steep hill on their skateboard & watching one wreck right before our eyes, kit kat bars...people there were obsessed with them, speed bumps in the middle of the highway, to camp town - i heart you!, and to pieces of history & moments that will be with me forever.

Friday, July 2, 2010

unity.


some of my best memories from high school are the summer weeks i spent at young women's girls camp with my church friends. not just because i luved those s'mores, and obviously still do, but it was a time in my life where i had the chance to strengthen friendships, learn skills & more about myself, and do things that i probably wouldn't have done otherwise. memories like...tipping over in the canoes with my cousin carly, tenting with angie-melissa-hilary-and all those fun girls our YCL year, tight braids & wavy hair, hikes up into the provo canyon before camp for skills check offs, cooking around the stove, first-aid mock disasters, no showers, lots of singing around the campfire with those amazing girls & their guitars, sister norton and her positive + positive attitude, lots of beautiful hikes up around camp Mia Shalom, being away from the day to day distractions, and all that comes with those great outdoors. my journal records of pretty dear moments that strengthened my relationship with my savior jesus christ. in a world of mostly chaos, with temptations & severe distractions facing teenagers...what a blessing to have a program that provides safety, love, values, friends, and a path that can lead you to happiness if you choose to follow it.
in january cam & i were called (asked) to head-up the 4th year stake church young women's backpacking trip. here in highlands ranch, all the 4th years do not stay with the main camp but instead leave camp for a big backpacking trip. the past few years they have gotten away from the backpacking and instead have done things like canoeing, a river raft trip, and hiking a 14er but this year they wanted to go back to the true backpacking trip it is suppose to be. so after months & months of planning...we headed out this week with 35, 14 to 15 year old girls, for a 3 day backpacking trip...we hiked up around the beautiful colorado trail in leadville, co and camped next to turquoise lake & then hiked to both bear lake & timberline lake...
mountain man cam really came through...

we hiked some tough, tough terrain (even for the adults). we did 30 miles in 3 days with our backpacks...most of these girls, their backpacks were bigger than they were.

roasting hot dogs...the food was pretty hardcore roughing it and the girls had pretty good attitudes! day 2 they had packed bagels & the leaders carried the pb&j....they all swore pb&j never tasted so good :)


these chicks were no wimps! those who dared, jumped into this 50 degree lake...the photo below is the face they all made to the reaction of the cold when they jumped in - hilarious i have them all on video!


the things you get excited about while camping...yeah chili mac with beef sounds gross but i am telling you it was pretty awesome.

the theme for camp this year was unity...Moses 7:18
"And the Lord called his people ZION, because they were of one heart and one mind and dwelt in righteousness." it was amazing to watch the girls helping each other over these different streams, lifting each other up ("sister kesler, i really wanted to cry on that last hill...i wanted to give up but then i turned around and saw alex behind me and i knew if i gave up that maybe she would...so i just kept going."), and pushing through the challenging times...the rain, the hills, the blisters, the "gross" oatmeal in the morning. it was a testament to me that this younger generation is really more capable than they even know. i think sometimes as parents we think our children are "too small & young", "that's too hard for them", "they just aren't into that sort of thing"...but the truth of the matter is that doing hard things, makes us stronger people. and the thought is true, nothing in life that is worth it, is easily obtained...whether it be schooling, relationships, goals, mothering, serving, forgiving...

we were definatly in the right place.


we left back to camp after taking this picture...the girls walked 7 miles back into camp...it was like a movie, as we turned the last corner, there were the other 150 young women waiting for us...epic...each group of girls started screaming and running towards each other. how sweet is the reward.

we really couldn't' have been working with better couples. ryan & dana moats and laurel & mark plumb. WE had some great times together over the past 3 days and i am grateful for these new friendships. and smash burger was awesome on the way home.

Saturday, June 26, 2010

LUV me some...


LUV me some "sharp hips" and seeing Vannah in
her dance recital outfits!


LUV me some sweet Lucy Lu looks...

LUV me some amazing father's that i know and
was thinking about on their special day!

LUV me some cute, cute jilly smiles!

LUV me some Loveland, Colorado where i did my first olympic tri with my cousin kristine!
the girls helping me finish strong...the 1 mile swim was my favorite...the 30 mile bike brutal...and by the time i got to the 6 mile run, well you just run. i didnt break any records by any means but it was a really great experience!
LUV me some orange slice smily faces!
LUV me some j. cam who found me twice on the race, had the radio blasting & cheered me along. thanks for being my #1.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

jilly bean turns ONE!

time flies when you are cute & chubby!

jillian's ONE year birthday bash!

happy day of birth miss jill!

nanny sent her this cute little book with their pictures placed in the cut-outs...hysterical! she also luved her outfits &
swim gear from her aunts!

three sisters "cheese!"
she luves her car daddy put together for her...
so now she can cruise in backyard while the
sisters are playing on the swing set.


"it's my party!"

can i fit my whole hand into my mouth...
oh yes i can!
heading to beddy..."sugar diabetes" (luv you gramps!) sure preps for a good night time sleep.
JILLIAN's Top 12:
1. She now offically has one tooth!
2. A crawling machine.
3. Super sweet snuggle bug.
4. Luvs to wave "hi" to everyone.
5. Easy going & now luvs her big girl car seat!
6. Luvs playing "barbies" with her sisters.
7. Beautiful blue eyes.
8. Strong heart even with a little pulmonic stenosis.
9. Thighs you want to eat like the ones at KFC.
10. Luvs bananas.
11. Giggly & smily!
12. Brings lots & lots of "alofa" to our family.

Sunday, May 9, 2010

family news...the latest addition...


meet nancy.
actually nancy d. kesler.
9 months old.
rescued from the denver dumb friends league.
really sweet & playful.
the girls are in heaven.
so excited to have her in our fam!
happy mothers day to all the women in my life,
who mean so much to me.

Sunday, May 2, 2010

super girl.

so ive been swimming alot lately. i was feeling kinda bored & lazy with my workouts so i signed myself up for a couple triathlons this summer. so ive been swimming. its interesting. and i kinda luv it
(except for the chlorine in the hair thing).
its like i might be having a day when i dont want to workout out but then i jump in that cool water and its just refreshing. im weightless, which is nice, but then there are so many factors that are involved...the other day as i was counting down my 35 laps (yes that is a mile, holla) i started thinking...what other sport is there where you:
1. can't listen to music while you are doing it
2. can't chat with your friend while you are doing it.
just me & my thoughts. and my mind totally wanders...
to a pretty wide range of topics...
- how i feel about my body.
- my family...alot about my girls.
- spirituality.
- what i look like while i am swimming.
- shoes at nordstroms.
- jaws.
- friendships.
- to who stole my minivan when i was in high school.
- the race im training for.
- my to do list.
- the dentist...name one person who likes going.
- south africa (im going in exactly one month)
- what am i going to cook for dinner
...okay you get the idea...
but the other day, i was thinking about why i luv swimming so much. and i pin pointed it down to the fact that simply, it reminds me of when i was little. i grew-up in a small town in southern indiana...and while my parents couldn't give us cell phones, handheld video games, ipads, or computers...they gave us something much more priceless...a summer pool pass...and countless childhood memories.
so i let myself remember...days upon days, hours upon hours of swimming at the local pool in sellersburg with my sisters. literally i can see it all...my blue & yellow swimsuit, the bright pool towels, my wet bob of hair plastered to my face, the concession stand, the swim meet flags, the green oak trees hovering around the pool from the outside...almost like it was yesterday.
so i share this picture that to me is so very priceless. every summer my parents would rent out the pool one night for our church ward summer pool party! it was a blast. well, sometime during the night...you never were quite sure when it would happen...my dad would sneak up onto the high dive with a swim cap, goggles & a towel wrapped around his neck...then he would hollar "super man!" catching everyone's attention and as kids, we would just laugh & laugh. well one summer, i kept bugging dad that this was my year to be his "super girl"...so he got me prepped...and sent me climbing up that ladder to the high dive. i still remember the thrill i felt as i yelled "super girl!" and made the big jump.